Loving your church family requires more than just attending services—it means actively engaging, serving together, and remaining committed to the body of Christ. In Acts 20:1-16, we see Paul continuing his ministry, not alone, but with fellow believers, emphasizing the importance of teamwork in spreading the Gospel. If you’ve stepped away from regular church involvement, this is a challenge to reengage, celebrate God’s work in your life, and encourage your brothers and sisters in Christ.
Encouragement: Building One Another Up
In Acts 20:1-2, Paul embraces and encourages the disciples, showing us the importance of uplifting each other in the faith. The Greek word parakaleo—used in this passage—means to exhort, comfort, and strengthen. Encouragement is not just a kind gesture; it is a vital part of Christian fellowship.
Paul understood the challenges believers face and was intentional about offering words of encouragement. He did not simply preach and move on; he returned to established churches to strengthen them in their faith. Just as Paul encouraged those in the early church, we should uplift one another in our spiritual journeys.
Too often, believers fall into a pattern of negativity—critiquing songs, ministries, or how things are run in the church. Instead, we are called to be people who build up, not tear down. Colossians 4:6 reminds us, “Let your speech always be with grace, seasoned with salt.” Whether in our church, homes, or workplaces, our words should reflect God’s love and encouragement.
Service: Working Together for the Gospel
Acts 20:4-5 lists the men who served alongside Paul. Ministry was never meant to be a solo effort. Paul, though a powerful leader, surrounded himself with co-laborers to advance the Gospel. In 1 Corinthians 3:9, he reminds us, “We are God’s fellow workers.”
Loving your church means serving with others, not in isolation. Many hesitate to delegate because they believe no one else can do the job as well as they can. But true leadership means training and equipping others. Paul traveled with a team, ensuring that the work of the church continued even in his absence. Just as parents teach their children responsibility, seasoned believers should disciple others in ministry. If we fail to raise up new leaders, the work of the church suffers.
Serving together fosters unity and prevents burnout. The church was never meant to be a place where a few people do all the work while others spectate. Instead, we are called to participate in the body of Christ. If we isolate ourselves or refuse to share responsibilities, we hinder the growth and effectiveness of the church.
Commitment: The Responsibilities of Church Membership
Loving your church also means committing to its mission and to your fellow believers. In Acts 20, Paul not only encouraged and served, but he also exemplified dedication to the church. He faced opposition, changed his plans when necessary, and prioritized the needs of the believers above his own safety and comfort. His actions show us that church is not about convenience—it is about commitment.
When we become members of a church, we are not just signing up for a weekly service; we are dedicating ourselves to a spiritual family. This commitment includes:
- Serving one another – Using our gifts to bless and strengthen the body of Christ.
- Encouraging each other – Speaking life and truth into the lives of fellow believers.
- Bearing one another’s burdens – Supporting each other in times of difficulty.
- Teaching and discipling – Helping new believers grow in their faith.
Jesus loved the church so much that He gave His life for it (Ephesians 5:25). Likewise, we are called to love our church family sacrificially, investing time, energy, and resources into strengthening it.
Living Out Your Love for the Church
Paul’s example in Acts 20 teaches us that loving our church family means encouraging, serving, and committing to one another. Small acts—kind words, offering a helping hand, or listening to a fellow believer—make a lasting impact. If we want to love our church well, we must commit to building each other up and working together for the Gospel.
God calls us to be encouragers, not critics. When we gather as a church family, let us focus on lifting each other up rather than pointing out flaws. Our words and actions should reflect Christ’s love, strengthening our community of faith.
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